mmmmmmmmmmmmmh#stretching my self out of bed….:)Morning my lovelies…iam in a great mood and its color is green,full of energy and life.The skies are white and blues and the ground is wet due to last night’s rain and for the couple of weeks back it was raining and i was so happy because i love cool weather,Africa is way too hot like no wonder we are so black black lol….i dont know how people around me are always happy to be in this brain melting heat.At times when am sweating on my face i would freak and run to the mirrior to chek if am really sweating sweat not my brain melting down lol…crazy right..
Anyway i have realised that love plays an intergral part of each and every person,like we are united by love because everyone knows it,is looking for it and loves it.But in my opinion i say a few in the whole world have experienced it,i would like to call them the fortunate ones,the ones that God’s hand of favour is stalking.Like sometimes we will think we are in love only to find out we are not or we where never inlove.If you are going to disagree with me here is what you should be having,your first love as your husband/wife,i will expect you to not have a single ex,because when there is an ex it shows you onces thought you where in love…:)
People love each other because of something they have or something they want to gain from those people.For example it could be for the riches,connections to the people in high places,physical appearance and etc.Like i believe one has not experienced love or will never know what love is if he/she has not heared or experienced the love of God.First of all we need to know that God is love,He knows love more than any love guru in the entire life.He is sure what love is because it is him.
He is someone who brought his one and only beloved sin free son to this sinful world to die for the sinners who do not even respect him nor acknowledge him even after all he did for them?who can do that?NO ONE…someone who loves you regardless of what you do/did,whether you are an albino,disabled,ugly,unemployed,poor,dying of HIV,dying of cancer,smelling,a home less person,a prostitute,a pimp,a raper,a killer,Been to prison for years,a drug dealer etc…like just mention one pesron who can do or be atleast like God,and just fall inlove with one of the kind of people i mentioned above.We always want to fall in love with the clean,the healthy ones,the rich,the educated,the stable in life,the beautiful and etc….We forget what really counts…The heart…
The reason why God loves the way he does is because of the heart he has,he loves us looking at the heart too,he doesnt feel pity for us but he truely loves us.Until we can love like him,fall inlove not based on what we have or what we look like i would say we got pure true love going on.Natural love,the kind that we dont force,like the love a mother has for his/her child,thats the kind of love that we should have for our life partners.A mother’s love for her family is unconditional,even if her child could be sick,be a thief,kill people,she still loves him/her and we call that love.
The problem is people confuse lust with love but these are two different things.Lust is a desire that is stimulated by a superficial impression of the object of passion with a selfish consideration in mind,it is backed up by a certain motive all the time and Love cannot be explained,we just know its characteristics that we can identify it with,From the book of life #theBible its says;love is patient and kind,love does not envy or boast,it is not arrogant or rude,it does not insist on its own way,it is not irritable or resentful,it does not rejoice at wrong doing but rejoices with truth,love bears all things,believes all things,hopes all things,endures all things (1corinthians 13:4-7).All the characteristics describes God,He is all of them.So as for those who think/say are inlove with their partners, is your love like this love??ask yourself.Love gurus have confused us saying love is hard work,you can learn to love someone,love is an investment and stuff they are killing us to not find true love,love is not hard work if its this kind of love.It comes natural without you investing nor putting much work in it.you dont have to buy someone expensive jewelleries to get them to love you that is not love its bussines.
I wish the way we think we know love could be the right love that we know not the love we read about from the magazines,the love based on a human mind’s assumptions.It is true that we are nothing without GOD.He knows us best than we think we know ourselves,We need him to discover some of the things we dont know about ourselves.Just like network providers knows their connections nd stuff and when we have a problem with out phone internets and stuff we consult them because they made it,they know all about it.Because we are made by God why cant we go back to him and consult him about things that we dont know about ourselves???
Just meditate on this phrase often and see what will happen in your life…..“Dear Jesus, I want real love and to be loved unconditionally. Please forgive me of my sins and show me what is real love. I surrender my heart to you and ask that you take control of my life now. Thank you.”
mmmmh…i feel light after writting this its like it has been a burden to share with you all.Iam sure that indeed i will touch millions of lives out there.God bless you all…PEACE…